Alcohol: What To Do If It’s a Problem for You

It is not how much you drink, it’s how you drink.

How can I tell if alcohol is a problem for me?

Alcohol is a problem for you if it causes problems in any part of your life. This includes your health, work, social life, causes legal problems and relationships. Often people think you have a problem with alcohol only if you drink all the time, drink in the morning or are always drunk. . Its not necessarily how much you drink its how you drink. You may have a problem with alcohol if you think about drinking all the time, can’t wait to have that drink, have blackouts, or if you try to stop and can’t. 

Some questions to consider:

• Do you feel the need to cut down on your drinking?

• Are you trying to control your drinking?

• Are you annoyed by criticism of your drinking?

• Do you feel guilty about your drinking?

• Do you fee hung over, have memory blackouts from drinking?

• Do you have legal problems or DUI’s?

• Have you lost time from work or lost jobs due to drinking?

• Do your relationships suffer from your drinking?

Are you driving while under the influence, you risk yourself but you also but others at risk.

If you answer yes to 1 or more of the questions, you may have a problem with alcohol.

Who has an alcohol problem?

Any body has a problem if they want to stop or moderate their drinking and find they can’t. 

Many people find it hard to admit when alcohol is a problem. Often, people around you may see your problem before you do. Think about the things mentioned here. Think about what your friends and family say to you about drinking. Then talk with your family doctor, therapist or counselor about your concerns.

Signs alcohol is a problem:

• Accidents

• Anxiety

• Being unusually suspicious

• Blackouts/memory loss

• Breakdown of relationships

• Depression

• Getting driving tickets

• Insomnia

• Loss of self-esteem

• Not taking care of yourself

• Poor work performance

• Taking sick days for hangovers

• Trembling hands

• Trouble having erections 

How does alcohol affect my health?

Alcohol is best known as a cause of cirrhosis, a disease of the liver. However, it has many other effects on your health. It’s a major cause of deaths and injuries due to accidents. It can have severe effects on  pregnancy, stomach pain due to a bleeding ulcer or irritated stomach lining, malnutrition, increased depression and anxiety. 

What causes alcoholism?

The causes of alcoholism are not fully known. A history of alcoholism in your family increases your chances of having an addiction problem. Men seem to be more at risk than women. Some drinkers use alcohol to try to relieve anxiety, depression, tension, loneliness, self-doubt or unhappiness.

Why should I quit?

I recommend quitting for at least 6 months to a year, you can always resume if you want.   It may not be easy to quit. It may not be safe to immediately quit, you need to check with your physician to see if you would need a medical detox. 

During this time you can assess underlying problems that might be attributing to your alcohol use. Alcohol will solve nothing so when you clear it away you may find other concerns that can be better addressed with different interventions.

Relationships usually suffer with excessive drinking. Get to the underlying problems which may become more solvable once the alcohol has been put aside.

Your work may be affected by your alcohol use. Once the alcohol has been removed as a variable you can better assess the problems that might be there.  

National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism

In 2019, of the 85,688 liver disease deaths among individuals ages 12 and older, 43.1 percent involved alcohol. Among males, 53,486 liver disease deaths occurred, and 45.6 percent involved alcohol. Among females, 32,202 liver disease deaths occurred, and 39.0 percent involved alcohol.

Among all cirrhosis deaths in 2015, 49.5 percent were alcohol related. The proportion of alcohol- related cirrhosis deaths was highest (76.8 percent) among persons ages 25 to 34, followed by persons ages 35 to 44 at 72.7 percent.

From 2010 to 2016, alcohol-related liver disease was the primary cause of almost 1 in 3 liver transplants in the United States, replacing hepatitis C virus infection as the leading cause of liver transplantation due to chronic liver disease.

Research has shown that people who misuse alcohol have a greater risk of liver disease, heart disease, depression, stroke, and stomach bleeding, as well as cancers of the oral cavity, esophagus, larynx, pharynx, liver, colon, and rectum. These individuals may also have problems managing conditions such as diabetes, high blood pressure, pain, and sleep disorders. They may increase their likelihood of unsafe sexual behavior.

Alcohol consumption is associated with increased risk of drowning and injuries from violence, falls, and motor vehicle crashes. Alcohol consumption is also associated with an increased risk of female breast cancer, oropharyngeal cancer, esophageal cancer (especially in individuals who inherit a deficiency in an enzyme involved in alcohol metabolism), and harmful medication interactions. Alcohol consumption has been linked to risk for FASD in the offspring of women who consume alcohol during pregnancy.

 

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